Although there is no real stigma to filing or declaring bankruptcy these days, many people would rather find another alternative. Also, bankruptcy may not be your best or only option if you are relatively financially stable or trying to save your home from foreclosure.
To find other options or alternatives, it is best to consult with a financial professional like a CPA or adviser, or a bankruptcy lawyer. There are programs available for distressed homeowners or low income wage earners, and an attorney can help you negotiate with creditors if you are unable to do so or feel uncomfortable about it.
Budget your monthly expenses and cut out frivolous expenditures. If you can get a second job or a part-time one along with your regular one, a few hundred dollars per month could make a huge difference. In conjunction with this, try to consolidate your debts or make every effort to reduce your balances so that relief is in sight. Pay off the small ones first so you can see some progress and give you motivation.
If you do not foresee any significant progress in reducing your debt within 3-5 years, then consider bankruptcy. A Chapter 13 involves paying off your creditors within 3-5 years while saving your home or any other property that might not be exempt under a Chapter 7.